My experiences with the Standalone so far (playing hardcore servers mostly):
1) Wake up west of Elektro. Run straight to Balota AF to get some sweet loot, since I'm a freshspawn I'm running in the middle of the road. By the gas station just past Cherno, see a fully equipped guy in the distance. I stop and put my hands up to signify I'm unarmed, a freshspawn and mean no harm.
He shoots me without an afterthought.
2) Respawn. Solnichniy town. Bunch of dudes and girls in the middle of the road beating the crap out of each other. The last one standing asks me "dude can you hit me in the face?" I do it, he gets knocked out and thanks me. I'm stuck far away from any decent loot spawns and all my potential friends just killed each other.
3) Run to Elektro. See a guy on the firestation tower roof with a Mosin shooting freshspawns. Find a revolver and very little ammo for it and decide to sneak up and take him out, only to find out he had a friend in the other fire station covering him. You are dead.
4) Respawn just west of Elektro. Run there, sneak up on the second guy, hit him with a baseball bat - one hit KO. Just as I'm taking his Mosin to try and shoot the first guy, he shoots me first (obviously they were communicating via TS or something).
5) Respawn. Solnichniy factory. Might as well jump off the roof.
6) Respawn. Berezhino. FUCK. Jumping off the constructions site.
7) Respawn. Novy Sobor. What the hell? Eh, great spawn when you think about it. Run to Stary, looks like nobody looted it yet. Enter a house, look to my left, there's a guy. Felt like I had a heart attack in real life. I yell into the mic in shock, he apologizes and tells me he checked the south side of town already so I shouldn't waste my time. I thank him and head to the military base near Vybor.
I get inside the HQ building, go upstairs and see the upstairs door closed. Everything else is open. It's night, I only have a flashlight and good clothes including a vest. I open the door from the side and shots immediately come through.
"I'm friendly! I have nothing but a flashlight. I won't do anything."
A guy peaks through the door at me. I raise my arms - even if I did want to attack him, I literally had nothing.
"Please don't kill me. I won't do anything."
The guy empties his M4 into me without saying a word.
8) Respawn. Novy Sobor again. I figure I'll head to NWAF and maybe catch up to the guy who killed me near Vybor. Nobody's there and it hasn't been looted, so I get some very good gear including an M4. I need to pee so I log off under the stairs in the ATC tower. I log back in and when I peak out, I immediately get shot at from the fire station tower. I have no idea how he could already know I was there.
I manage to get out of the tower eventually, flank, and climb up on the roof of the firetower. He must still be there as I would have seen him climb down, but I can't get a shot. I climb up on the ladder and he's gone... I get on the roof to look around, when I suddenly realize he was ghosting. I quickly go prone, but it's too late and he shoots me from behind.
9) After some uneventful looting, log in geared up with pretty much nothing but a mosin nagant and some ammo for it in the Camo building at Balota airfield. Walk out, look up the stairs and see a dude with an M4 aiming down at me... instinctively let out a shot, miss. Second shot is just a click. Strangely, he doesn't shoot me - I run away saying "I'M SORRY MAN I GOT SCARED I WON'T SHOOT YOU" over voice chat. I reload my mosin, come back, the guy has now lowered his gun... I line up a perfect headshot and kill him.
I feel terrible. I apologize instantly, hoping he hasn't respawned yet and can hear. I haven't felt so bad about a game, probably ever. In my defense, I was on the verge of dying from starvation and I probably wouldn't survive if I would have to run to the town and look for food... I run to the barracks and just so see a guy running behind the barracks. I immediately open fire and hit him, but don't kill. I flank around to try and finish him off, hear his character cursing, and just as I approach the corner, he strafes out and sprays me. Dead. Karma is a bitch
10) Respawn. Just west of Electro (best spawn), friend spawned in Kamyshovo. We meet up in the school and head out to Balota. Pretty soon we find a revolver and an M4, though with very little ammo. Full server so I'm surprised we even find the M4, and there's not much chance of finding more ammo just as loot... we will have to do a little banditry. I spot a player getting inside the barracks and hold off my friend. He says he saw more people inside, he's playing on much lower settings so it's perfectly possible he has better line of sight. I drop the revolver so that he can cover the exit but it disappears...
I told him to keep watch anyway and just warn me if they start leaving, and flank the barracks. The moment I get to the window where I have a shot, they all almost simultaneously disappear... god damn combat loggers.
Either way, we find another M4 although with even less ammo and head out to look for more - Zelenogorks, Vybor, to NW. At least that's the plan ..