My understanding of woke is it's the mindset behind an entertainment product, not the progressive elements that inhabit it. How can you know someone's mind? Because the desperate need to be seen as a good person and receive a certificate announcing it so is not subtle. It's obvious when we're being lectured, when our choices are limited to prevent us from expressing the wrong opinion, when the player's enjoyment comes secondary (or not at all) to enforcing a worldview for goodboy points. The interactable nature of videogames exposes this more than any other media.You can apply this thinking to video games as well. BG3 is very woke in the sense that the aesthetics and demographics lean towards the performative and disgusting. It's only mitigated by the fact that it has some conventionally attractive men and women in it where many other recent games are very much a case of 'spot the white man/woman'.
So while the industry has been unintentionally training consumers to see ugly characters as red flags, let us remember this stuff is merely a guideline. It's been weird to see 90s/00s games being accused simply because they have some progressive elements.
Progressivism does in fact worship ugliness. They call beauty "heteronormative standards", or sometimes "eurocentric" when it's framed racially (white bad, non-white features good).
Here is a simple exercise, without knowing absolutely anything about this game tell me the political ideology which animates it simply from looking at this character's hair:
It's activism through character design, and it's perhaps the most important part of wokeness, the same way architecture is the highest field of artistic expression.
There are many reasons for it, some of them being the so-called 'normalization of masculine features in a female body' (troons), which is why the man-jaw meme exists now, or why female characters are depicted as overly hairy, etc.
But it goes much deeper than this, it is a literal rebellion against what we consider beauty itself. It's also tied to the proggressive and communist desire to destroy the family unit as well, in a roundabout way (family represents normalcy, and without family you are more susceptible to following the State's orders).
Leftists see 'beauty' as simply another social construct, or at least these modern woke-religion ones do, and they believe that, like gender (another social construct), it can be manipulated and changed for the supposed betterment of mankind. People can simply be trained to like women who look like men, and they can be trained to despise beauty, because beauty is rare and thus exclusive, whereas ugliness is common and thus inclusive.